Busy News Day #5 - Allegations Against Chris Noth

 

I was very sad to hear that allegations of sexual assault against Chris Noth.  There is something about him that I have always liked.  He was my favourite character on Law and Order.  He is the only reason why I watch The Equalizer.  He was the perfect Mr. Big.  Even when he was being an ass to Carrie, he always seemed to be one of the good guys.  I just got over ugly crying over his death.  Now, I know Chris Noth is not the characters he plays, but he is so handsome and appears so charming, well, he just is likeable.  His interviews have always made him appear to be thoughtful and a feminist.  

Now, allegations of sexual assault have been made against him.  He has denied them.  

Frankly, the timing is interesting, but I believe survivors.  Disclosure is always complicated and we shouldn't judge when and why victims disclose.  In this case, there is more than one accuser.   

I have to admit though, that I am sad.  I always thought he was an ally and respected women.  

I guess it is a reminder to all that anyone, regardless of status or fame, can be a perpetrator.  Of course, we never blame victims, but, it is a reminder that we always have to vigilant and consider our safety in all interactions.  

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